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What do you do as precautions? 18/2/2005
I mostly won't meet people unless we agree on a place
where there are lots of people areound, such as the college
campus. What about the rest of you?
0 Comentários, 200 Visualizações,
15 Votos
,3.13 Pontuação
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Two sides of the coin. 17/2/2005
I´ve read alot of the articles here about dating safety, and
to add, even though there are a-holes out there, I myself
am one, I do not want a persons home number or home address
or even go to their house just from the first email I receive
from them.Myself, I would feel uncomfortable going to
someones house that I just met.I tried it once, and we had
are fun, dont get me wrong, but I ...
1 Comentários, 242 Visualizações,
23 Votos
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Safety First 27/1/2005
Ok ladies listen up and same goes for you men as well. I'm
been meeting people online for over 5 years now and there
is no thing that's actually saved my life once.
<br>
Starters NEVER give out your home phone number until after
you meet and get to know the person off line. Gie them your
cel phone number only. There are too many ways of people
finding your home addy, place of ...
8 Comentários, 1131 Visualizações,
103 Votos
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Genuine or Not? 27/1/2005
How can you be sure to who is behind a profile on Parsexual.com?
Sure there are more genuine females/males/couples than
there are fake, but how can you separate the bad apples from
the good ones?
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I think that the adult verification is a great idea, but
to some it could seem a little off-putting/time consuming
having to print out the form and fill in all the details then ...
5 Comentários, 348 Visualizações,
25 Votos
,3.24 Pontuação
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Password Protected 25/1/2005
When meeting for the first time, it's always best to
meet in a very public place. I usually try to find a restaurant,
bar, even a shopping mall where I know someone who works
there. That way, if trouble is brewing you can always run
to them for help. Another thing that works really well is
using a trustly old password approach. Make sure you've
told someone where you are going. Dial ...
1 Comentários, 173 Visualizações,
20 Votos
,4.78 Pontuação
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what can we do better 21/1/2005
as men what can we talk about during a conversation at a bar
to entice your interests more?
1 Comentários, 146 Visualizações,
7 Votos
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how safe is this site 18/1/2005
I am curious have all of the encounters on this site been
safe. Has anyone had a frightening encounter and is there
any precautions I should take?
3 Comentários, 379 Visualizações,
11 Votos
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Condom Breaking 18/1/2005
How can you tell if your condom might have had a little tear
in it, even if you can't see it?
2 Comentários, 325 Visualizações,
11 Votos
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On line dating and how to do it safely 16/1/2005
I'm a new member to this web page. What I want too know
how safe do you think it is to meet someone you are writing
over the web pages. The way I see it is read the profiles and
always go down to the QUESTION that asks HAVE YOU BEEN TRUTHFUL
and if they answered YES then read though the rest of the
questions that they answered then talk to them on line for
about 2 weeks before meeting. You ...
0 Comentários, 124 Visualizações,
10 Votos
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Online Dating Dilemma: Dishing Out Rejection 16/1/2005
The Internet is a strange place, and what seems abnormal
for in-person experiences is completely common on the
Internet. Notice that the word is common, not polite or
considerate.
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You need to know how to dish out rejection in an appropriate
way. As with real life, you must do it quickly – and with a
modicum of kindness, if possible. Granted, for some people,
a more ...
1 Comentários, 423 Visualizações,
31 Votos
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if you only knew... 16/1/2005
If you only knew that almost 83% of the people on this site
is the same person would that make a difference. Her name
is Mildred Sassity. She's 53 and a librarian in Cedar
Rapids. In her spare time, she assumes the mantle of about
3, 456 different profiles and returns e-mails and makes
up these great profiles. So don't worry, you will probably
never meet Mildred anyway.
2 Comentários, 448 Visualizações,
23 Votos
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Men=Wild Animal 15/1/2005
When you think about wanting a man in your life, I suggest
that you consider the "Wild Animal" strategy
to deal with them. Think of it like this: Suppose it's
not a man that you want in your life, but a Bobcat. If you wanted
a Bobcat, you'd have to be real careful once you spotted
him. You'd make sure you had safety equipment in case
things got tricky. You'd never turn your back on it,
or ...
0 Comentários, 97 Visualizações,
10 Votos
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Told You That B#t%h Is Crazy!!!! 14/1/2005
It's always the beautiful ONES
Well.. I would have hope that one of my friends would have
given me a warning or something. It's going on week
FIVE and I still can't get her to go away. The 1st time
I saw her was at this but that I had just started going to.
She was yelling at some guy that made her mad. Makin a scene
at that. Red flag, or at least it should have been. This was
about two ...
2 Comentários, 277 Visualizações,
20 Votos
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Ladies BEWARE of the Sexual Preditor! 14/1/2005
This is for the ladies on this site....
Please be safe and get to know someone well by email and phone
before you go out with them....
Case in point...Beware of DarylJon54....he is a sexual
preditor of the slickest kind. He will romance you with
hot lusty emails....and is VERY agressive about wanting
to make passionate love to you....he will make a date of
passion with you...and BAM!! ...
17 Comentários, 668 Visualizações,
35 Votos
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try new things.... 14/1/2005
I use to use a .357 for dating safety. That big bad boy could
drop a BBW at 75 feet. Dead in her tracks. But lately with
the new age women, I find that a taser jock strap works best.
If they want to try anything out of line, especially before
I've had a chance to ask them if they know our Lord and
Savior Jesus Christ, then I'll juice my crotch and
give 'em quite the shock. Depending on how ...
3 Comentários, 171 Visualizações,
16 Votos
,0.78 Pontuação
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the first date first meeting 4/1/2005
when you have talked to someone online and are ready to meet
in person. meet in a public place. if they dont want to then
drop them quick. they are hiding something.
get their phone number and call it. tell them you are letting
a friend have it and his name.
try to meet somewhere where you know someone so they will
be able to keep on eye on you to see you are okay. introduce
your date ...
1 Comentários, 179 Visualizações,
33 Votos
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public 4/1/2005
Definalty a public place that you are familliar with on
the firstdate..it make you feel more secure.
Always take ur own car..this can be akward because of the
well no need to take 2 cars and waste gas or add more crap to
the air..
And well if you feel any pressure BOUNCE on home
1 Comentários, 125 Visualizações,
22 Votos
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Letting Friends Know 3/1/2005
I usually let at least three friends know when I'm going
to meet an online friend. I tell each one to call me at a different
time within a hour to two hour time frame.
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This way if things go well, I'm alone. And if things
don't go too well, I can have a drink and think about
what could have been done differently.
0 Comentários, 133 Visualizações,
9 Votos
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Be safe 31/12/2004
I am extermely cautious who I date, the men I date are recommended
by friends. First time meetings are somewhat a roll of the
dice, but I'm a good judge of a person. Pepper spray
takes the fight right out of a man to give you a head start
if all else fails.
1 Comentários, 159 Visualizações,
20 Votos
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Worried about discretion 25/12/2004
I hope this place is easier to get together and find exactly
what I need. I joined my cities local singles site last year
and hooked up a couple times the first month from uncomplicated
women that sought me out. Great sex with both and I still
see one every few months. I was rather surprised but after
that the third chick that again sought me out turned out
to be a stalker and I had to get ...
0 Comentários, 91 Visualizações,
8 Votos
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WE agree 23/12/2004
After much discussion with my wife we agreed on some guidelines
if our "Date" ever happened, they seem like
words to live by...Did we miss anything?
1. Meet in a public place.
2. Always wear what they are not looking for so you can walk
away if they seem "Shady".
3. NO ..If you want you can give them the number
of a restaraunt you'll be at.
4. NEVER GO TO "THEIR" PLACE, always use a ...
5 Comentários, 350 Visualizações,
43 Votos
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Always let some one know 17/12/2004
Hi, its one thing to be spontanious and free, but its another
to play it un safe. I think its a good idea to always let someone
know where you are at all times, especially if your meeting
someone alone for the first time.
4 Comentários, 154 Visualizações,
56 Votos
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16/12/2004
If you are just starting down that road to getting to know
someone, might be advisable to give them your cell phone
number, instead of your home phone number.
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With the click of a few buttons on the internet, it becomes
very easy for someone to do a reverse number look up on a phone
directory site, and know your home address.
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Just something to think about in ...
4 Comentários, 152 Visualizações,
35 Votos
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Modern Technology and Safety 16/12/2004
Most of us today have cell phones, and we should not be afraid
to use them as a tool in keeping ourselves safe. On a first
date, especially if you have never met before, it is wise
to meet in a public place, and to also make sure someone else
knows where you are. However, you can also use your cell
phone to be even safer...have your friend call you say an
hour into the date...if all is ...
2 Comentários, 71 Visualizações,
23 Votos
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Her Choice 16/12/2004
I guess being of the OLD school I was raised to respect a females
wishes when it cam to dating. to a point i still hold true
to these values. When I feel the timing is right to ask for
a first date i always try to reasure the date that we will
meet when and where She wants to. I do this so that she will
feel as safe as possible. and I have also suggested that
she bring a friend if she ...
4 Comentários, 71 Visualizações,
14 Votos
,5.22 Pontuação
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Remember 14/12/2004
Just a quick reminder guys-this can be a fairly scary thing
for a lot of women/men. A lot of us are new to this,
Start slow-it will pay off in the end.
2 Comentários, 233 Visualizações,
45 Votos
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Background check 13/12/2004
Would you invest in a background check for someone you met
on here? It's probably best, esp. for the ladies.
<br>
http://passion.com
professional service providing background investigations
and personal profiles. Some of the information they will
check into for you - SSN, marital information, addresses,
, relatives & associates, property
deeds, bankruptcy, judgments, liens, ...
0 Comentários, 104 Visualizações,
19 Votos
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Tips for meeting online, esp. for the ladies 13/12/2004
When you do decide to meet someone whose company you enjoy
online, meet in a public place and bring your friends. Your
online buddy will understand and accomodate your wishes
if they are honest about their intentions towards you.
If during the date, you decide to go somewhere else, use
your own car.
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Don't agree to hiking dates or meetings in remote areas
until you know ...
1 Comentários, 87 Visualizações,
37 Votos
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Characteristics of a Psychopath 10/12/2004
Symptoms and Signals:
A psychopath will use people for excitement, to build their
self-esteem and they invariably value people in terms
of their material value (money, property, comfort, etc..).
To date there is a checklist of behavior and symptoms that
will tell you with certainty is a person is a psychopath.
These are warning signs.
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Characteristics of a Psychopath:
...
1 Comentários, 199 Visualizações,
48 Votos
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what's too much to ask? 1/12/2004
i'm having a very difficult time finding ways to bridge
the gap between flirting, building an email friendship
and simultaneously determining the safety practices
and history of the people (men) i'm communicating
with. it seems to me that meeting from an anonymous state
would make thid dialog the most obvious first steps yet
it still seems so taboo to mention, as if there's aconversation ...
3 Comentários, 38 Visualizações,
34 Votos
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